D. Interviewing: Active Listening
In addition to the role of Speaker, in which you control the direction of an interview by introducing new topics by asking main questions, and eliciting more information by asking follow-up questions, you will also play the role of Listener which also requires specific language tools.
In an interview, listening is an active role. In order to make sure that communication continues, you will need to do more than simply listen passively. The "tools" or verbal skills you will need as an active listener include:
In the U.S., some silence on the part of the listener in an interview or conversation is considered "natural" and comfortable. However, total silence would make the speaker very uncomfortable. Even during short periods of silence, you are expected to give the speaker feedback: verbal and non-verbal signals or cues that let the speaker know that you are listening and that you understand. The speaker will continue to speak as long as you appear to be following what is being said. Your feedback signals can also encourage the speaker to continue if they indicate some degree of acceptance of, or agreement with, what the speaker is saying.
Verbal Signals:
Non-Verbal Signals:
Non-verbal forms of feedback also include some facial expressions reflecting
a moderate amount of "emotional" response to what a speaker is saying.
For example, slightly raised eyebrows may indicate surprise, or a more
definite smile may indicate amusement. Remember that the speaker may be
"reading" your expression to judge whether you are comprehending, or are
interested in, what is being said.
II. Interrupting
We have been discussing signals that tell the speaker to continue speaking. Another group of feedback signals are those that indicate that the speaker may not continue: there has been some kind of communication "breakdown" which the speaker must repair before continuing. When you haven't understood something the speaker has said, you will need to interrupt. Interruptions are very frequent in informal conversations. They are less frequent, but very important, in situations such as an interview, where the speaker is explaining something or providing information. Polite interruptions will not surprise or disturb the speaker. In fact, he or she generally expects to be interrupted and asked questions.
One clear or obvious place to interrupt is when the speaker pauses for breath or between thoughts. Often a pause is an invitation to the listener to interrupt. However, sometimes it is necessary for you to say something while the speaker is talking, usually if there is some problem in understanding what the speaker is saying. These interruptions are considered more acceptable if they begin with a brief apology.
Interrupting to ask for focused repetition:
One reason for interrupting is to get the speaker to repeat words or phrases that you didn't hear clearly. There are several ways to make this request:
These questions are often accompanied by direct eye contact, and other
non-verbal cues, such as a puzzled facial expression, shaking the head
or inclining the head toward the speaker.
Stress falls on the first stressed syllable of the word or phrase
you're asking about.
Focused vs. Unfocused repetition: Questions such as "What?",
"Pardon?", "Pardon me?" and "Excuse me?" used with rising (question) intonation
are also asking for repetition. However, they do not identify the part
of the speaker's words that you would like him or her to repeat. The speaker
may try to "repair" the conversation by repeating several things, guessing
you want to hear again, or asking you to clarify: "What didn't you get?"
or "Which part didn't you understand?"
Interrupting to ask for meaning or spelling:
Often, even when you have correctly heard the words, you need to interrupt and ask for the meaning (or spelling) of a specific word or phrase.
III.. Checking bits of information:
Finally, it is important that you check with the speaker to make sure
that you have correctly heard what he or she has said. This is particularly
useful and important when you are gathering information and want to make
sure that the information you have gathered is accurate. You can check
for accuracy by repeating what the speaker has just said, or by paraphrasing:
IV Interview length and closing the interview:
As the person conducting the interview, it will be your responsibility to end or close it. The length of each interview depends upon the topic of the interview and the amount of information your contact person is ready to provide you. Some people will talk longer than others. Generally, it is considered polite if you end with some expression of thanks or appreciation for the time which the contact person has given you.
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